im starting to think black will stand out too much so now im thinking maybe a gunmetal or dark greyish color, any other ideas ? please post pics of the colors if possible or company and paint code so i can give them to the shop doing the work

 

I was leaning towards black but decided against it for the same reason. I chose the meteor grey to match my car. I was able to find the rear hatch molding in black to replace the stock silver one. Now it will match up nicely with the high gloss black window trim. Good luck

 

Silver is such a neutral color, I think it'll look good with any color. I like your thought on black.

 

How about the same silver as your paint? It will almost look debadged.