So a Cayenne Turbo pulls up next to a BMW M4 at a traffic light ...
#2
Did the M4 driver know you were racing him? Way back when i owned my E46 M3, a 957 Turbo S decided i wanted to race him without me knowing and got the jump, but i caught him in third or fourth pretty easily. And that was only a E46 M3. The new M4's are beasts in straight line runs.
#3
He was driving pretty aggressively up to the traffic light, so I knew he would respond. As you described, I did get the jump on him off the line, I was surprised it took him that long to catch up. The 0-60mph on that M4 is quoted at 4.1s. That M4 convertible must have been a nice spot to experience the sound of my exhaust though !