Sorry man. I know how you feel. We lost our first as well. Its a tough as hell to take. Just remember your wife probably feels 1000 times worse than you do right now so try to be the strong one and console her as much as possible letting her know that its not her fault.

 

Your family is in our thoughts, so sorry for your loss.

 

Yup, thanks RB. It's definitely not easy to take and much harder for her.

 

I am very, very sorry to hear this. Unfortunately we may never know why God allows these things to happen, but nothing is without reason. I've said a prayer for you and your family.

Just remember - Where one chapter ends, a new one begins. God bless~

 

Vasilly, I am so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you.

On another note: my hardwood floors look amazing and you did such a great job. I so appreciate you getting these done for us - we plan to call you for our next project. Thank you.

 

Thanks Greta for the kind words. We try to do a quality job no matter how big or small a job is. I hope the floors last many many years.

 

I'm sorry to hear of your loss V. Sarah had a miscarriage with one of our previous pregnancies, so I know how tough it can be. We'll keep you in our thoughts.

 

we lost our first baby about 7 years ago. It hurt, still does. We had chosen names, and tried for months on end. We had our life mapped out. It hurts, and for me I think it allways will. I allways wonder what my son might have been like. Makes me thankfull I have two healthy wonderful kids now.

 

Very sorry for your loss. Hang in there...

 

Vasiliy our thoughts are with your family. Sj300 pretty much sums up how Caryl and I feel for your loss. Know that the support your friends and family will show over the next few months will strengthen you and your wife in so many ways. Support her in this time and if anything is needed that we can assist. Call or mail anytime

Mark

 

really sorry to hear that vasilly, my mom had the same situation few years back, so I know how you feel. You and your family will be in my prayers.

 

Really sorry to hear the news.

 

So sorry to hear the news V.

 

Sorry V.
My wife and I went through this too, at about 2.5-3 months in.
She didn't have a miscarriage, so we discovered this in the doctor's office.
I remember going in to learn what sex our baby was going to be, and walking out shell-shocked to discover that we had to schedule its removal. It's tough. Worst part was fielding questions over the next 2-4 months of "how is your wife doing, she must be showing by now" type questions. That was a painful lesson for me in the wisdom of not announcing until the 2nd trimester.

Eliseguy's advice about it being worse for her -- is spot on. Imagine what you're going through times 1000. It will also take her 1000 times as long to process the loss. Keep in there, there are no shortcuts, there are no "fixes", there is only support and understanding.

 

Thanks to everyone! All the kind words mean a lot.