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Jun 10, 2014 | 02:39 PM
  #106  
Quote: Everyone can talk all day about why/why not people should think the way they do. Reality is, that they think what they think and we can't change that.

If..... Someone (a boss, customers, clients, employees, etc....) possibly could have a negative opinion on what car you drive AND do have influence over your job, business, sales, etc.. It may be in your best interest to play the part and not feed into anything that could negatively impact you. Keep in mind, most of the negative opinions and impacts are ones you'll never be able to see, hear, or point out.

Everyone has a different situation. Just do what's best for you and be smart about it. If you need a daily driver, that may be an option for some.

The point is don't waste time analyzing why people should/shouldn't think what they do. Just be aware of what it is they may be thinking and how it can affect you....
Isn't that what this entire thread is about (the OP's intent)? I think you and the majority of the participants here are saying similar things.

And I agree, by the way.
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Jun 10, 2014 | 06:44 PM
  #107  
Quote: It is also interesting to think about regional variation within our own culture. Southern California has a strongly ingrained car culture so a nice car is something people prioritize. My guess is that this is a very rare problem back where I grew up. In the Midwest things are different; the very wealthy rarely show it. Flashy cars in the wrong circles would raise a lot of eyebrows and many people rush to harsh judgments. In the Northeast wealth is on display, but it is often in subtly different ways (or not so subtle). In the Northeast, nice cars are not as much of a priority and money gets spent on other things. I am not sure about the south, but it would be interesting to know what others think. (South Florida was more like California with regards to cars at least…)
Obviously expensive cars are sold all over the country, but the way people think about them changes depending on where you are. If you grew up in so cal, moved to New York and your boss is from the Midwest….Trouble! Office politics are very real and by no means just. You should consider proactively controlling the story. Deemphasize how much the car costs, and focus on how much you enjoy driving it. Talk about how glad you are that all of your hard work in the office has allowed you go get the car you have always wanted, and so on.
Good luck, and remember there really are worse problems to have! J

It's not that california is a car culture. It's that california is a show off your money culture so that spreads to everything. Clothes, homes, cars, you name it. I'm not saying all of California is like this but the places where you see the nicest cars you locals will understand what I am saying. They just happen to have car events as well because California is nice and sunny. They aren't going to have them in florida with the hurricanes nor have them in the midwest with 12 ft of snow.

Northeast spends money mostly on homes. Also the culture is more to be secretive about your wealth because they have a lot more. We have to spend more on homes to get the same level of a home in california. For instance a 3 mil home in bethesda or DC is crap compared to a 3 mill home right in beverly hills next to rodeo drive.
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Jun 10, 2014 | 07:30 PM
  #108  
Quote: It's not that california is a car culture. It's that california is a show off your money culture so that spreads to everything. Clothes, homes, cars, you name it. I'm not saying all of California is like this but the places where you see the nicest cars you locals will understand what I am saying. They just happen to have car events as well because California is nice and sunny. They aren't going to have them in florida with the hurricanes nor have them in the midwest with 12 ft of snow.

Northeast spends money mostly on homes. Also the culture is more to be secretive about your wealth because they have a lot more. We have to spend more on homes to get the same level of a home in california. For instance a 3 mil home in bethesda or DC is crap compared to a 3 mill home right in beverly hills next to rodeo drive.
I grew up in Orange County, CA and recently moved to the armpit of the world aka Houston. You are right about showing off. That's just how it is there. However, there are those (myself included) that are truly into cars. I've been into cars my whole life so I guess I was one of the few in the neighborhood who actually new anything about what they were driving!

It was amazing when I moved to houston... people would gawk at my M5. An M5 is as common as a Honda Accord in OC. I was so confused! Last week I was at one of the nicer restaurants in Houston... you always see a few exotics... which is rare for Houston. People were actually taking pictures with them. It's not that people don't have the money here. Its just that they spend it on other things... like massive trucks!
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Jun 10, 2014 | 11:30 PM
  #109  
This is an interesting thread.

Sometimes I have a hard time driving a Porsche.

This is kind of related to the annoying thread I recently posted, about being able to "afford' a porsche.

I think I posted that thread because I have a lot of forces holding me back because the 991 I feel is a bit flashier than the 997. Its also not quite as eccentric looking -- instead it looks more badass, like a Ferrari.

I like that its more aggressive looking, but I also like the more humble/underdog/classic look of the 997. 911s have always been a bit of an underdog - they always kill the giants but do it in a bit if a humble way. The Bruce Lee of cars, I read once.

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I have driven a 997 for about 3-4 years here in the midwest. It gets a lot of looks. I dont like to look out the windows because people are often looking back at me.

Sometimes people will tell me "cool car" or make some (positive) joke, IE " I'll trade cars with you!" which leaves me with an awkward prompt for a response.

But now and then people are rude.

I have this theory that college-educated people who don't make a lot of money resent fancy cars, but more working-class types seem to respect it.


Also - a lot of people also don't know what a Porsche 911 is. They dont' know the legend behind it and compare it to just a regular sports car, like a corvette or something. They dont realize its probably the coolest, most iconic car ever made.

I also think we are over-concerned about what others think (in this thread). But I think its better than NOT caring completely what others think. I know a guy who is worth over 100m owns a ferrari enzo, amongst millions of dollars of other exotics. I asked him once if people crowd around his cars a lot, and he seemed to enjoy it and revel in it.He has let money and objects be all that defines him. So its good we're not that guy, right? (Sadly others might view us as him sometimes)

Growing up in the 80's, we all wanted a cool car when we grew up. Almost every kid knows a Porsche and dreams of having one some day. Yet so few of us ever make our dreams come true. Most men live lives in quiet desperation.
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Jun 11, 2014 | 03:47 AM
  #110  
Quote: This is so well said... I am also an employer and one of my executives bought an Maserati the other day - put huge smiles across my face. This is all a very interesting balance and exactly why I have an M6 and not a Panamera or 911. My clients see Porsche or R8 and their eyes pop out.. I pull up in a BMW (even an M6) they think nice car and he is doing well (not going broke) hehe. Porsche has a phenomenal brand presence to all walks of life. Our neighbour bought a base Cayenne (V6) with a few options and he was ecstatic.. kept sending me texts as he drove by and parked next to ours.. saying "Porsche what, what...". I shake my head in amazement each time, the power of the badge is very impressive.
So true, the average person cant tell the difference between a boxter, Cayman or a 911... All they see is a "Porsche" sports car and they assume its the same price as a Ferrari. So in essence your boss may be driving an Audi saloon and because you're driving a boxter for example, you will still have the same dilemma. The majority of people aren't enthusiasts.
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Jun 11, 2014 | 07:28 AM
  #111  
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I have this theory that college-educated people who don't make a lot of money resent fancy cars, but more working-class types seem to respect it.
You do live in a Lucid Day Dream don't you? Just like most your perceptions about being able to afford a Porsche making $400k a year. I'm college educated and I think it's going to be a must in the future just because much of the rest of the world puts a high importance on college education, and we don't want to be left behind. That is unless you are a genius or have an exceptional ability in sports or entertainment.
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Jun 11, 2014 | 10:23 AM
  #112  
Quote: So true, the average person cant tell the difference between a boxter, Cayman or a 911... All they see is a "Porsche" sports car and they assume its the same price as a Ferrari. So in essence your boss may be driving an Audi saloon and because you're driving a boxter for example, you will still have the same dilemma. The majority of people aren't enthusiasts.
I saw this recently...

A guy in front of a group noticed that someone drove a Boxster (turned out to be a 2002 base model), asked who owned it. A retired LEO raised her hand. Theories were flying about how she must have been corrupt to afford such a car, and asked how fast it goes. She said,"No, it only cost $8k. I've had it for a few years. It isn't as fast as my husband's Mustang GT."

A few people looked around like she was crazy, and made comments about how she must not know anything about cars, because she was a woman.
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Jun 11, 2014 | 01:03 PM
  #113  
Quote: So true, the average person cant tell the difference between a boxter, Cayman or a 911... All they see is a "Porsche" sports car and they assume its the same price as a Ferrari. So in essence your boss may be driving an Audi saloon and because you're driving a boxter for example, you will still have the same dilemma. The majority of people aren't enthusiasts.
I would agree with this.. civilians have no clue.. Same with the differences between a Turbo and non turbos.. (Maybe more with the GT's simply because of the over the top aggressive looks..)

I also think most have no idea what the cost is either..
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Jun 11, 2014 | 01:09 PM
  #114  
Quote: Its not just in my head - let me explain an incident

One day I was asked to accompany some of the partners of my firm to a silent auction (charity) ...it was somewhat of a spontaneous request ...I agreed to go with them because I had my evening open

When I got there....

I put a bid on a new Omega Sea master (opening bid was $1,000) and finally won it for $2,600 .... the watch is easily worth $5K

one of the partners commented - "wow - that is not a small purchase" and commented "Even I couldn't afford to buy a watch like that unless I have been planning and saving for that for sometime" ...but I saw it and it was a no brainer for me...

I have also heard comments like "He drives the most expensive car in this office" ......
You shouldn't care what others think. Enjoy your luxuries.
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Jun 11, 2014 | 01:42 PM
  #115  
Quote: QUOTE: " Coming from Europe, I love the US for the fact that -most times at least- money is seen as a sign of success and is not something you are ashamed of." Unfortunately, the tide is starting to turn here in the US as well.
You can thank our commander in chief for the change in attitude.
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Jun 11, 2014 | 02:09 PM
  #116  
Quote: It's not that california is a car culture. It's that california is a show off your money culture so that spreads to everything. Clothes, homes, cars, you name it. I'm not saying all of California is like this but the places where you see the nicest cars you locals will understand what I am saying. They just happen to have car events as well because California is nice and sunny. They aren't going to have them in florida with the hurricanes nor have them in the midwest with 12 ft of snow.
I have a lot of family and friends in SoCal, their mentality or culture is so different than ours, it's hard to understand. Keeping up with Hollywood seems to be the culture there. Everyone needs the latest and greatest whether they can afford it or not even if it means eating ramen noodles everyday. I've had friends tell me that they can't find a girlfriend if they don't drive a nice German car. I asked them if that is the type of women they want and they just look at me like I'm some country bumpkin. The culture there is buy what the bank is willing to lend you as suppose to what you can afford. Most of my friends and family here, only buy cars that they can afford with cash. Totally different culture and way of thinking.
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Jun 11, 2014 | 02:35 PM
  #117  
Quote: I have a lot of family and friends in SoCal, their mentality or culture is so different than ours, it's hard to understand. Keeping up with Hollywood seems to be the culture there. Everyone needs the latest and greatest whether they can afford it or not even if it means eating ramen noodles everyday. I've had friends tell me that they can't find a girlfriend if they don't drive a nice German car. I asked them if that is the type of women they want and they just look at me like I'm some country bumpkin. The culture there is buy what the bank is willing to lend you as suppose to what you can afford. Most of my friends and family here, only buy cars that they can afford with cash. Totally different culture and way of thinking.

Where is here?
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Jun 12, 2014 | 08:57 AM
  #118  
Quote: I have a lot of family and friends in SoCal, their mentality or culture is so different than ours, it's hard to understand. Keeping up with Hollywood seems to be the culture there. Everyone needs the latest and greatest whether they can afford it or not even if it means eating ramen noodles everyday. I've had friends tell me that they can't find a girlfriend if they don't drive a nice German car. I asked them if that is the type of women they want and they just look at me like I'm some country bumpkin. The culture there is buy what the bank is willing to lend you as suppose to what you can afford. Most of my friends and family here, only buy cars that they can afford with cash. Totally different culture and way of thinking.

It's funny how one can believe an area can be summarized so narrowly. Sure some generalizations made because there are tendencies based on the overall culture that develops.

But such a generalizations are ignorant.. Just as it would be ignorant if I described all New Yorker's as obnoxious and rude which is also a widely held stereotype.. but one I've found untrue once I spent a little time there. It however may make you feel better or superior about yourself...

California is definitely a car culture and there are a lot of reasons for that of course that are well discussed.. And there is there are pockets of affluence... And I think that lends itself to a lot of nice cars...

Unfortunately not all of us here live in "Hollywood"... or the stereotypical places. We live in suburbs, have modest houses, go to work each morning and come home to our wife and 2.2 kids.. And we buy what we can afford..
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Jun 12, 2014 | 09:53 AM
  #119  
Quote: ...We live in suburbs, have modest houses, go to work each morning and come home to our wife and 2.2 kids..
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Jun 12, 2014 | 10:07 AM
  #120  
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Originally Posted by Ynot View Post
I have a lot of family and friends in SoCal, their mentality or culture is so different than ours, it's hard to understand. Keeping up with Hollywood seems to be the culture there. Everyone needs the latest and greatest whether they can afford it or not even if it means eating ramen noodles everyday. I've had friends tell me that they can't find a girlfriend if they don't drive a nice German car. I asked them if that is the type of women they want and they just look at me like I'm some country bumpkin. The culture there is buy what the bank is willing to lend you as suppose to what you can afford. Most of my friends and family here, only buy cars that they can afford with cash. Totally different culture and way of thinking.


Where is here?
Most likely in the state of denial about his own existence that makes him feel so knowledgeable as opposed to his ignorance
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