Guys not sure if this is a "normal" condidtion or not. When I load up the car ( foot on brake and 1/8 throttle) is has a vibration. not a misfire. Definite vibration. Any suggestions? TSBs?

I get that with a 7 speed transmission it's gonna shift a lot. But the trans seems "lost" sometimes and does wierd things... No warning lamps or messages definite hard / delayed upshift ( even in comfort mode) to third.

I am 200 miles across the border to the closest dealer. Don't want to waste thier or my time.

TIA