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Old Oct 16, 2012 | 09:12 PM
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Next most common comment that I have received "Hey, nice car, can you burn out and spin the tires??"
***KING stupid. Happened to me again today at a stop sign from a moron crossing the sidewalk. My window was open, of course. I told him, if he ponies up for my next set of tires, I'd be more than happy to.
I've seriously gotten this "request" at least 5 times from passersby
 
Old Oct 16, 2012 | 09:35 PM
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Yet another unsolicited conversation with a Porsche admirer. He didnt have one but his dentist does -- like i care.
Seems like you're the jerk in this case. The guy's just trying to relate by telling you he knows someone that has one.

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It's just an awkward moment for me as I am 20 years his junior.
Yup, and that seals it, you're the jerk.

 
Old Oct 16, 2012 | 09:41 PM
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Yeah, you're right. I'm the jerk. Grow up.
Everyone on this thread agrees, it lacks tact and respect to ask someone else how much their car costs. Especially in this day and age, where one can go to a website and build their own to get an idea.
I'm a jerk because I'm 30 and I've advanced my education, career, and finances to the point where I can afford a nice car? Good reasoning.
I won't resort to name-calling as you have done.
 
Old Oct 16, 2012 | 09:58 PM
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I'm a jerk because I'm 30 and I've advanced my education, career, and finances to the point where I can afford a nice car? Good reasoning..
Nope, you're a jerk because you're so self-absorbed, that apparently you don't have time to listen to a Porsche admirer tell you he LIKES your car.

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Yet another unsolicited conversation with a Porsche admirer. He didn't have one but his dentist does -- like i care.

And then you think you're better than him because you're younger than him with more money.

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It's just an awkward moment for me as I am 20 years his junior.
You might have Z money, but you don't have Z class.
 
Old Oct 16, 2012 | 10:11 PM
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Completely inaccurate post.
At no point did I say I was better than anyone. Your assumption is incorrect.
Also, I talked to the guy for 10 minutes and had a great time. Again, incorrect.
The only point that I was making was that it's not proper to ask someone how much they paid for a given car/item/anything.
Please direct your anger towards whatever it is in your life that leaves you feeling this way.
 
Old Oct 16, 2012 | 10:48 PM
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I have a couple of answers I like to use:
"Too much."
"A lot."

Though I do enjoy telling people who enjoy the cars what a great steal (deal) I got on mine. The sticker price usually gets a gasp at $150k for sure!
 
Old Oct 17, 2012 | 07:45 AM
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Originally Posted by rnl
After exiting my car complete strangers frequently come up to me, tell me that they really like my car and then ask "So, how much did that cost?"

I usually smile and say that "you will have to ask my wife, it was a gift"

One of my hobbies is astronomy. We have public viewing sessions and I get the same questions above my real expensive telescope/mount and other associated stuff.

In my opinion, it's not mean spirited to ask the price of the car. I don't want to provide an answer that may insult.

So, what do you say?
Modesty is the best policy!
 

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Old Oct 17, 2012 | 09:00 AM
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When I was a kid my mother told me it was not "nice" to ask how much something cost. It didn't make sense to me then, but it imprinted on me. I wouldn't ask, but I really don't care if someone else does. If they ask I tell them. They apparently want to know and I don't want to be rude or evasive with them. What's it hurt? Answer their question.
 
Old Oct 17, 2012 | 09:06 AM
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My mom was the same. The way she explained it to me is that I should not encourage rude behavior and rather than call them out on their rude behavior it would be better to simply change the subject. She averred that asking someone how much their car or home cost was akin to asking someone how much money they made. Regrettably I fall short of her teaching from time-to-time.

Besides the price of the car is on the Internet so maybe the question sometimes is a statement by the person asking rather than a real question. Grist for the mill.
 

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Old Oct 17, 2012 | 09:20 AM
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Maybe it's me, but I generally never ask what something costs and I rarely ask anyone about their occupation or profession. I do find such inquiries annoying and at times potentially dangerous. Just this past weekend while on a trip to (i am about to unleash unashamed bragging) see our daughter ride for the Pennsylvania State University Dressage Team (she got her first intercollegiate blue ribbon) and yes, Penn State actually has a dressage team...a really big guy at a truck stop wandered by as we were entering the car...told me he liked the color and asked what it cost. This time I smiled said "a sh*tload" he smiled...i left quickly.
 
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Originally Posted by rnl
Maybe it's me, but I generally never ask what something costs and I rarely ask anyone about their occupation or profession. I do find such inquiries annoying and at times potentially dangerous. Just this past weekend while on a trip to (i am about to unleash unashamed bragging) see our daughter ride for the Pennsylvania State University Dressage Team (she got her first intercollegiate blue ribbon) and yes, Penn State actually has a dressage team...a really big guy at a truck stop wandered by as we were entering the car...told me he liked the color and asked what it cost. This time I smiled said "a sh*tload" he smiled...i left quickly.
perfect answer in that setting...
 
Old Oct 17, 2012 | 09:39 AM
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strangers asking these questions is one thing, when it comes from extended family its all that much worse...
 
Old Oct 17, 2012 | 08:12 PM
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An older neighbor of mine and I got home at the same time today, he asked me how I liked my car. I told him words couldn't explain how happy I am when I'm driving it.
Of course, the next question was "How much did you pay for it? "
I tried to take a lesson from this thread and not be a jerk.
So I told him, a lot.
He pressed on and asked again. I told him a lot. He asked a third time.
I finally folded and told him 6 figures.
He then said, well you're probably not married. Good choice.
 
Old Oct 17, 2012 | 08:35 PM
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Man this is a common problem. I walked out of my office the other day and was walking to my car and a complete stranger likely retired and asked first if the car was manual or automatic so I told him it was a 7spd manual. Thought the coast was clear as I was about to jump in and take off and then comes the next question so "what did that run ya!-85k (msrp in Canada is about 135k). I said yep thats about it and took off. I hate the question, seriously if you really need to know google it. I am sure Ferrari guys get the question all the time because everyone knows a ferrari costs a lot. Z Money keep the posts coming I enjoy reading them!
 
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Z money-I love how people love to justify it to themselves how you "afford" the car "not married" What a stupid assumption. To each their own I like cars so I spend some money on them other enjoy and spend your money the way you see fit.
 


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