Sorry about your grief. Give it a few weeks. I am sure you will find some happiness in your 997.2. Things like this seem to happen for a reason. Something better will come along in due time.

 

Wow that's a sad story indeed and keep yer' chin up as they say and she's obviously not good enough for you!

 

Your porsche and that woman do not belong in the same sentence! Her leaving you when she did is (like what others have already stated) the best thing for you.

Just imagine you two got married, have kids, then she goes back to her ex . Now that's ugly.

 

Truly a cold hearted *****...

Onward and upward!

 

Sorry to hear.. but try not to waste your time on her.. look at the pain she has caused you. Someone who loves you wouldn't hurt you like that.. I hope you realize soon that you're better than this... and that you should move onto bigger and better things. She's not worth your time.
You will realize that everything happens for a reason. You'll probably even thank the guy for proposing to her and taking her away... because you will meet someone that is 10 times better than her.

 

Tromero:

The first sign of trouble in reading your story came when you said she was only one month removed from ending a long term relationship. It is not emotionally wise to loose your bearings with someone in that situation.

You have gotten a lot of sage advice on this board. Ignore it at your peril. And, her obvious lack of respect for you probably stems from the lack of respect she has for herself.

I, too, predict that she will be back. I speak from experience. However, I don't think you should ignore her completely at that time. Treat her like the less valuable member of society that she is and, whatever you two used to do together in private, do it from a different approach. At that time, you will see her for what she truly is, not for something you constructed in your mind in a few months.

The manner in which she repaid your kindness and your devotion is only a harbinger of things to come for the one who will be the recipient of what she dishes out next. Considering what could have happened to you with her down the road, you just got away with your life. Literally.

ALL of the pain and heartache that you are feeling now will pass with time. Do something positive and move on with your life. Taking your 997 on long drives can be therapeutic and help you sort things out.

Don't worry, be happy!

Regards, Maurice.

 

You know I didn't want to say this, but at your age you should have known better. This is the kind of thing a teenager or someone in the early 20's would make. You never take anyone serious after a breakup..way to much baggage. I'm sorry you have to go through this, but I have to say I felt like I was in highschool again..and I'm 45.

Just be happy you didn't get married and have kids..you want to talk about pain and heartache. I've been married now 12 years and man a lot of the time I feel I stayed only because I want my kids in my life everyday. I love my wife to death, but marriage is hard work....


Dave

 

You got it all wrong.

It's going to take some time but you will realize that you don't need somebody to make you happy.

The best thing that happened to you was that she left. Better to get screwed now and not later.

In the meantime, hit up the gym, wax the Porsche and go out to the bars with some true friends.

There are so many woman out there and they are all the same.. better to have a fat lady that makes you happy then a hot one that makes you miserable.

 

Got it right...my PCar is my best friend at times. She let's me rub her hind area, take her for a drive and she never talks back..

 

You should of known a month out a relationship is not enough time. I went through something similar. Time will heal your wounds God Bless you bro

 

Sorry to hear about your situation, and hope things get better soon. I agree with the previous posters: it's better that this happened now versus later down the road. Her loss.

 

 

she use you to get her ex to proposed to her .You got lucky she coulda got half of everything .Consider yourself lucky,trust me she will be back and you still get to keep the 997.

 

Dude, the only thing that will make you happy comes from inside YOU first. She sounds like a very immature person and can't figure out what she wants life. Today it is you tomorrow it may be a pool boy. I don't mean any disrespect to you or your choice but this woman is not happy with herself and she'll drag whoever's with her down to her depth.
Move on my man and thank God He was merciful enough to release you of this burden. Everyday will get better. Look inward, heal first and drive you car, its like a healthy dose of heroin.

 

Nothing better than the right one; nothing worse than the wrong one.

I find that most things happen for a reason and that the best is yet to come.

All the best.