Sorry you had to go through this.

Go to askmen dot com and read up on advice given by doc love. You need this type of advice to avoid women of this type. You should have left when she said "I need space"... It was already over at that point.

 

Looks Like She Played You and The Other Guy... She Knew that Once she had Someone like you as the Potential Competition .. The Other Guy would Get into Gear .. Cause he was Stuck on 1st .. You Were Already Power Shifting to 7th.. So The Other Guy Turned on his SuperCharger .. and the Rest is history...
..Just Keep Cruising Out There Bro .. Cause When your Not Looking for your Soul Mate... She will Appear out of the Blind Spot

 

sad sad story, but it seems u are a good guy.
maybe a bit too good. i would have dumped her for choosing to meet(speak to)him again. u always have to be in control as a man, even if strong feelings are involved. she could have been begging u for mercy afterwards and maybe just maybe i would have given her another chance. i mean, hello?!

 

from all bad comes good brother, you got lucky...

 

you deserve better bro, best of luck to you

 

That's a hard story but, you know, it could have been worse - at least it was only an emotional loss. For example, Jessica Seinfeld got married (with all the attendant costs), went on her honeymoon (more $$$), and then, pretty much as soon as she returned, left her husband for Jerry Seinfeld (that would be the Porsche link here). It's cold comfort, but emotional investments heal a lot quicker than financial ones. Believe it or not you're in better shape than Jessica Seinfeld's ex. was. Hang in there, the worm will turn . . .

 

You are a good man, too good. Now go get a TT and she'll help you get over.

 

i would have done the same. find your way back. or have him pick you up

 

Not to sound like a jerk, but she did you a favor. You can find someone better out there.

 

askmen.com does help. Doc love is a real peice'a work

The pain of loss is most likely just simply in the physical aspect.

meh...

I hope you have a good support system for when ya 'need it'

Keep in mind as well, everytime you hear from her, be it email, text, call etc...it will reset your healing clock. Do NOT contact her in anyway shape or form, you will only come back to regret it ten fold.

You need to break off all contact and so does she, so you are able to heal properly and fully before you can ...and I suggest you dont, ever talk to her to some degree again.

Ask yourself this....

what would Beowulf do...?

lol